Be Kind to Others

We have all heard that at one point in time or another, haven't we? Growing up, we are taught to share, take turns, help others, pitch in, clean up after ourselves, the list goes on. For some reason, many of us start to forget all those directives. All you need to do, is spend some time watching traffic, or better yet, go to a shopping center and watch how people behave, or often, misbehave.

It's easy to be selfish and self-centered when we have tons of stuff to do in a short amount of time. We often think that whatever it is that we have to do is far more important than waiting our turn or being courteous, respecting others even when they don't respect us. I am embarrassed to admit to you that I am usually very polite until I get behind the wheel of my car. I know how to wait my turn and all that, but there's something that happens to me when someone cuts me off or doesn't follow the rules. It's something that I need to work harder on. So when I share these bits and pieces, I want you to know that I am really just sharing my experience as one who is walking with you. I am always mindful of the fact that I am a flawed human being who is doing my best to inspire others along the way. 

Each time I am tempted to be judgmental or critical of someone, I remind myself of the fact that it's the person's behavior I don't like and that my behavior may offend others from time to time. When I want to criticize a person, I have to remember that they are someone's son or daughter. They may be struggling with something or they may just feel overwhelmed, and maybe they aren't aware of how they are  acting.

So let's take the time to use our manners, share, take turns, offer a helping hand, pitch in, clean up after ourselves, share a kind word or a smile. It really could make a difference in someone's life.